Free Your Mind. . .And The Rest Will Follow
A successful home based business starts with your ability to make the important decision to step outside of your comfort zone, learn new things, and take action.
Many people are doomed from the start because they cannot push through the resistance of the outside world or the inside world of their own thought processes.
I want to shine the spotlight on the inside world!
If you have chosen Network Marketing then you are now in the Relationship Business which is based on daily interaction with people. People of all kinds who will make the decision to partner with you based on many different things.
One of the most important is your Positive “CAN DO” attitude. That’s you, right?
Be Honest With Yourself
Do you have control over your conscious and subconscious thoughts? Most of us have more negative thoughts during the day than we do positive thoughts.
We dwell on fear, worry, judgement and doubt. We call it “Stinkin Thinkin” and it is deadly to our forward progress!
I am talking about about the old tapes that play in our brain and our heart that say, “I’m just not smart enough or pretty enough”, “I will never amount to anything
and I’m a failure”, or “I’m not worthy, I don’t deserve any better”.
Why do we allow things that were said to us in thepast as children, students, teenagers, or adults continue to effect the way we think about ourselves and our
abilities? Why do we let outside influences determine our self worth?
This “stinkin thinkin” affects the way we interact with people, especially our prospects.
If we don’t believe in ourselves how can we expect someone else to believe in us?
“Sometimes We Need a Check Up From The Neck Up!”
Take the time to really pay attention. Do you find yourself automatically responding negatively to most everything? Do you doubt your abilities or your worthiness?
In my late teens and early 20s I became a super negative person. I had a tough childhood, made some bad decisions and became very tough on myself and the other people around me.
Wow! I’m sure I was a complete joy to be around!
Then 3 things happened that sparked my recovery from this sour life. I met my husband, started a family and found Network Marketing!
But first I had to personally decide that I didn’t want to be that person who sucked the life out of others. I wanted to be the person who sparked creativity and passion in others!
Was it easy? No it was a daily exercise.
Am I perfect now? Of course not!
I still catch myself with negative thoughts whirling around in my head. But the difference now is that I recognize them and work quickly to replace them with positive thoughts and ideas.
Here Are The 3 Things I Did To Make The Change:
- Get Real – Be honest with yourself
- Pay Attention – are there certain triggers that send your mind ot the negative “black hole”?
- Fill myself with the positive things of life. Turn off the negative news, read only the positive posts on social media, surround myself with positive people, avoid the negative ones or at least try to stay away from the negative conversations.
Take 15 Minute Breaks
Each morning and each night take a few minutes to make positive deposits into your mind.
Read , listen or watch people like Jim Rohn, John Maxwell, Dani Johnson, Les Brown, Joel Osteen and many others.
It starts with you! Awareness is the first step in making a change in your life and and your thoughts.
Action is the next step. It is time to TAKE OUT THE TRASH! Get your thinking right.
Focus on ridding your mind of the thoughts that can hold you hostage.
Thank God it does not require major surgery or a bottle of pills to correct your thinking. It is really a simple concept. But
it does take time and diligence.
Out with the OLD and in with the NEW! Start to flood your mind with positive, life affirming input! Minimize the negative and MAXIMIZE THE INSPIRATIONAL!
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David and Debbie Reeder
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